The Hibachi Business Method

First, welcome to my brand new blog. What you're now reading is the very first post among what will be many. So, grab a coke, sit back, and enjoy...
Having only recently moved to Southern Florida (from New Jersey), I jumped at the chance to spend Father's Day together with my wife, kids, parents, and sister's family.
I think it's been something like 8 years or so since my whole family's been together on Father's Day. So, it was to be a special event, or so I thought.
Tokyo Peking, a local Japanese hibachi restaurant, was our locale of choice for the celebration.
There's nothing quite like watching an Americanized Japanese chef flipping, slicing, shoving, and spicing up your food right before your eyes.
It's quite the treat.
Anyway, things quickly took a right turn while I was ordering my filet mignon, fried rice and pina colada combo.
Upon pointing out the waitress that my two little girls were going to be sharing one single order of fried rice, she instantly burst into a tirade about a $5.00 "sharing" charge we would then incur if we were unwilling to order more food for the kids.
"Huh? $5.00... for what? To share a $3.00 order of fried rice", I asked.
"Yes. To share it's $5.00."
"Okay, well then instead of sharing for $5.00, how about we just order another thing of fried rice for $3.00. Is that okay?", I inquired.
"I'll have to check with the manager. I don't want to get fired", she rebutted with attitude.
"Check with the manager... for what?", I thought to myself, shaking my head in confusion.
Now, please understand... my amazement at the attitude of the waitress and, even more so at the sharing policy, had absolutely nothing to do with the 5 bucks.
It did, however, have everything to do with the business practice of the restaurant in charging more for the same amount of food just because it's being consumed by an extra person.
To me, it's a policy that reeks of greed, and has no legitimate business validity - at least not in this joint.
And, it's useless, damaging policies like that that leave a bitter taste in consumers minds.
Believe me, I'm certainly not the only person who's been offended by this restaurants additional money-making charge.
"Not for nothing, Todd, but a sharing charge of $5.00 to $7.00 per person is very common in restaurants around here.", belts out my father.
"With all of the old people (as if my father isn't one of them) wanting to share dishes, it's an extra way for restaurants to generate extra money", he says.
And right there is a MONSTROUS BUSINESS LESSON.
"Here's what I would do if I owned a restaurant", I say to my dad.
"I'd do the complete opposite of what everyone else is doing, and I WOULDN'T have any sharing charge. And, I'd make it known to everyone. I'd advertise it all over the place. I'd focus specifically on the old folks who want to share. And, because we'd stand out and offer a highly-desired benefit that nobody else does, I bet we'd clean up."
And, I've got to tell you, I really believe we would.
Why?
For several reasons.
First, because business success is all about DIFFERENTIATION.
It's all about preventing the commoditization of your business, by turning what you do compared to your "competitors" into an apples to oranges comparison, instead of apples to apples.
Business success is all about finding the gap in your marketplace - the lacking benefit your target market so desires - then serving it up to them.
So, here's the question to think about: what real, tangible benefit do customers get from you, that they can't get from anyone else in your niche, industry, or profession?
If you can't answer that, push everything off of your plate until you can. It's that critical.
The second reason I'd immediately dump the sharing charge is because it plain out doesn't feel good to consumers.
It certainly doesn't give someone the warm and fuzzy's about your business if your charging them, or doing anything for that matter, that benefits you more, not them.
Remember, your customers, clients, patients, etc., are the most valuable asset you have in your business.
They're more important than every desk, computer, employee, website, and sign you own.
So, for crying out loud, take care of them.
Don't try to wring every last cent out of them at every corner.
No, just the opposite.
*Look for every opportunity to over-deliver value to your customers.
Give them more than they expect. Never less.
Give them surprise bonuses, gifts, extra goodies, something special.
Remember, without them, it doesn't matter how good your product or service is. Without them, it's lights out.
Frankly, even though we didn't have to pay any sharing charge during out Father's Day outing, the whole experience seemed to have tainted everyone.
The consensus after the meal: "I think that was the last we'll be seeing of Tokyo Peking".
I agreed - even though I did take my extra fried rice and a piece of steak or two home in one of those little white and red boxes.